Discreet mode is a visual filter only. It does not anonymize, delete, or
modify any data in your account. Your usernames, images, and activity remain
unchanged in the database.
What changes when discreet mode is on
| Area | Normal | Discreet mode |
|---|---|---|
| Profile photos | Displayed normally | Blurred |
| Toy images | Displayed normally | Blurred |
| User-uploaded photos | Displayed normally | Blurred |
| Your username | Shown as-is | Replaced with “Anonymous User” |
| Partner avatars | Displayed normally | Blurred |
| Your data | Stored in your account | Unchanged — nothing is deleted or anonymized |
How to enable discreet mode
Open Advanced settings
Navigate to Settings → Advanced. You can also go directly to
dashboard.researchanddesire.com/app/settings/advanced.
Toggle Discreet mode on
Under Display options, switch the Discreet mode toggle to the on position. The setting saves automatically.
Discreet mode requires an active subscription. The toggle appears under
Display options on the Advanced settings page.
Frequently asked questions
Does discreet mode hide my data from other users?
Does discreet mode hide my data from other users?
No. Discreet mode only changes what you see on your own screen. Other
users, partners, and public profiles are not affected.
Does it delete or anonymize anything in the database?
Does it delete or anonymize anything in the database?
No. Your usernames, photos, session history, and all other data remain
exactly as they are. Discreet mode is purely a visual filter applied in your
browser.
Will my partner see that I enabled discreet mode?
Will my partner see that I enabled discreet mode?
No. The setting only applies to your own dashboard view. It does not send
any notification or change anything for paired users.
I enabled it but images aren't blurred yet
I enabled it but images aren't blurred yet
Refresh the page after toggling the setting. Discreet mode applies on the
next page load.